So you know that when that baby comes you will be getting literally no sleep for months; you want to enjoy it now while you can because it may be the last time you do.
But you find yourself waking up constantly, sometimes for no reason, and it’s frustrating! What little energy you can gain back from rest seems to be dwindling because your body is having a difficult time recovering.
You’ve heard that trying different sleep positions during pregnancy can help, different blanket and pillow arrangements, etc. But it’s hard to figure out how to sleep better during pregnancy if you’re not getting enough sleep to begin with.
Pregnancy Sleep Interrupters
According to the National Sleep Foundation, 78% of women have more disrupted sleep than when they weren’t pregnant, especially in the third trimester. Those aren’t good odds to hope for!
What’s causing all this fretful sleep?
Many different reasons, some you’ll think ‘duh!’ and others you may not have realized.
1) Hormones
It seems the number one reason is always hormones. They do so much more than just make us emotional or fresh.
Your progesterone levels have skyrocketed so you can grow your placenta, causing you to need that daily nap in your first trimester. They also inhibit muscle tension, leading to snoring and sleep apnea.
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2) Anxieties
This is the leading cause of restlessness and insomnia for mommies, ESPECIALLY for first-time moms. Because there are so many new realities hitting you every day about how you’re going to get through and deal with all of this, it’s no surprise really.
Related: Overcoming Fear Of Childbirth - 5 Things You Can Do
3) Bathroom Breaks
This is the easy one. Because your bladder is so smashed by your third trimester that your urine has nowhere to go but out.
The WORST is immediately after you’ve crawled out of bed and stood up, to feel that sharp pain on your bladder, hobbling to the toilet, trying to hold your belly up to relieve some of the pressure.
Just another reason why I use a Squatty Potty.
4) Restless Legs
Otherwise known as Restless Leg Syndrome, 26% of women experience this during pregnancy, according to Sleep Foundation. I remember a few nights where this bothered me too and I just had to move and adjust to help the feeling.
Have you tried compression socks for this?
5) Heartburn
Sometimes laying the wrong way will cause the acid to rise in your throat, causing you to wake up suddenly to sit upright so that you don’t feel like you’re going to hurl.
Or it may just be the constant heartburn that never goes away because your stomach is being shoved upward. No matter what, laying down usually doesn’t help. Have you tried lemon essential oil for your heartburn?
6) Back Sleeping
Some women will automatically wake up for what seems to be no reason and find themselves on their back. This happened to me a lot. And then the only thing to do is roll over and try to go back to sleep.
Well, laying on your back causes the weight of your belly to press down on your abdominal aorta, the primary bloodline that feeds your baby. If blood flow slows a little, your body can automatically wake you so that you can adjust and help increase that blood flow.
Now, ladies, I’m NOT saying that laying your back is harmful to your baby. Many women can only get comfortable on their back and I’ve had multiple providers tell me that if you’re comfortable on your back, it is perfectly SAFE.
It just depends on YOUR body, not the general population.
The worst part is that not having the proper amount of sleep leads to more difficulty during your delivery. And we CERTAINLY don’t want that.
How To Sleep Better During Pregnancy
Prescriptions and over the counter medications are off limits of course so you don’t hurt that growing one inside. Here are some things that will be able to help:
1) Coping Methods
Educate yourself about what may be causing your anxieties, talk with someone, take questions to your doctor, let your husband help you in areas you feel lacking, chat with us here on My Natural Baby Birth, be open to letting someone help you with your worries and fears.
I PROMISE you’re not the only one going through the same things.
2) Exercise
This will greatly help you sleep because it’s simple biology. The more physical exertion you undergo, the more rest you’re going to need.
Make sure you’re exercising at least 30 minutes per day, 4-5 days a week. You’ll see your sleep habits improve drastically.
Related: The Best Pregnancy Exercises To Keep You Strong
3) Fluids
Be sure to get plenty of liquids during the day, but cut back at least 3-4 hours before bedtime. Having to get up to pee nightly can’t be completely avoided, but it can be helped.
4) Smaller Meals
Large meals, often with spicy foods, are the main cause of your acid reflux because your food is sitting in your stomach too long, churning up the acid longer. Smaller, simpler meals will definitely help that.
Related: List Of Foods To Eat During Pregnancy - Plus One Thing To Not Go Without
5) Naps
Feel free to add these in whenever, but don’t put them less than four to five hours before bedtime or it will become harder to fall asleep. You’re growing a human being! That definitely deserves some rest. 🙂
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6) Breathing Exercises
Before you try falling asleep, adding some deep breathing will help you relax. Oxygenation your muscles allows them to release tension. Plus you can meditate a little as you drift off, using your relaxation imagery you’ve learned for your birth.
The Best Sleep Positions
So there’s really just four options:
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- left side
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- right side
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- front
- back
Obviously lying on your front when your belly starts to get big is just ludicrous. There’s no harm, but it’s surely uncomfortable.
I’ve mentioned sleeping on your back previously. If your body isn’t comfortable with it, you will continually wake up on your back so that you can roll over-easy fix. If it’s the ONLY way you can sleep well, then DO!
Blood flow to your baby isn’t an issue if it’s what helps you get better sleep. That better sleep is a huge help to your baby as well. If you’re still concerned about back sleeping, ask your doctor or midwife if they have any recommendations.
Left side is preferable over the right side for a few different reasons:
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- It helps increase the blood flow because your main arteries aren’t being squished.
- Your liver and kidneys can function more properly because the increased pressure is removed off them too.
I honestly could hardly every sleep on my left side because it always made my right hip hurt for some reason. So I usually slept on my right side.
ANYTHING essentially works if it provides relief from your back and pelvic pain.
Related: The Pregnant Roll Over - Definitely Not As Cute As The Baby’s
Helping Back Pain
Sometimes no matter what position you try, things never quite work. And sometimes we have to endure. But you’re here because you want to try something you maybe haven’t tried before, to ease the discomfort.
1) Exercise
This one will never go away, and for good reason. When our muscles and joints aren’t strong and can’t deal with the increased workload, that’s what causes our pain.
I HIGHLY recommend doing pelvic tilts daily. When you do your pelvic tilts on hands and knees, you’re using your entire set of abdominal and back muscles to lift your heavy stomach, thus getting stronger to carry it.
Related: Easy Pregnancy Exercises - Your Best Investment
2) Heat/Cold
A heating pad set to low can ease your pain as you drift off to sleep. If you’re awake for the day, alternating between heat and a wrapped ice pack can reduce inflammation and ease sore muscles.
Try taking a calming bath with some lavender to help you relax before bed.
3) Pillows
Many women don’t realize that a certain arrangement of pillows can completely solve their problem. Be sure to keep one between your legs and will firmly support the strain on your pelvis so it doesn’t burden your hips and low back.
You can place a pillow under your stomach (if you’re on your side) so it doesn’t pull on your hips and ribs. But even placing a pillow slightly tucked under your back side will greatly support your back, holding you upright.
“But I still seem to wake up, in pain, pillows in disarray,” you may think. I totally know.
That’s why I’ve written a review on the best maternity pillows that are completely supportive for your pregnant body on all sides. Some women do fine without them, but more and more do GREAT with either one and LOVE them.
>> These Amazing Maternity Pillows Are A Miracle For Your Sleep <<
I hope you find a solution to your sleep, trying a new position that works well, and your back pain is relieved.
**BONUS!
I’ve got 5 MORE secret tips that will help revolutionize your sleep that I want to share! I do these every single day, and you can implement them very quickly with immediate benefits.
What things work for you? Send me a comment below because you never know who else your little tidbit may work wonders for also. Happy Sleep!
Send me a comment below because you never know who else your little tidbit may work wonders for also. Happy Sleep!
Happy Sleep!






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Enid says
I know a pillow between my knees always helped when I was pregnant. Thanks for sharing these tips!
Definitely! I can’t sleep without a pillow between my legs now, even when I’m not pregnant. Thanks, Enid!
Lisa | The Merry Momma says
My big sleep interruptors were having to pee and just not being able to get comfortable. My biggest recommendation is a Snoogle. They are seriously amazing!! I use it sometimes even when I’m not pregnant!
I’m glad it worked well for you Lisa! And sometimes the peeing is just inevitable. 🙂
Jeremy says
These are some great tips Sarah, in the later stages of my wife’s pregnancy she had such a hard time sleeping. I think I remember that her main complaint was the restless legs. Her belly was putting so much weight on her legs she would wake up after laying on one side and her leg would be numb, I will have to reminder her to sleep on her left side and get some more pillows she can use between her legs!
Hi Jeremy. Yes, the pillow between the legs is important! Your wife’s pelvis is literally separating and having that support between her legs can provide major relief. How old are your kids?
Rachel says
Throughout both of my pregnancies I slept on my left side with a pillow between my knees. I also had a body pillow tucked behind my back to prevent me from rolling over onto my back. I grew to love this sleeping postions that I mostly sleep this way 6 years later! Great tips you shared!
Hi Rachel! Same goes for me. I used to ALWAYS sleep on my left side until I started having kids. Since I could only get comfortable on my right side while pregnant, it’s how I have to sleep now too, even when I’m NOT pregnant. Crazy, isn’t it? Thanks for your comment. 🙂